How To Turn Awkwardness Into Confidence

  • Published: 01 July 2019
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    Like it or not we have all been awkward at different points in our lives. Sometimes that awkwardness gets in the way of connecting with other people or even feeling confident in ourselves. Awkwardness doesn’t need to be the end of the line. In fact, if you handle yourself well you can turn awkwardness (whether it’s just a moment or a way of being) into confidence. Which is what we are covering in this video featuring Tom Holland.

    0:27 - Point #1: Adjust your body language.
    4:05 - Point #2: Handle friendly teasing.
    6:39 - Point #3: Tell your own embarrassing stories.
    9:37 - Point #4: Let go of managing people’s opinion of you.

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Comments • 4 577

  • Charisma on Command
    Charisma on Command   2 months back

    Sorry about the jarring switch to loud R&B music for the dance battle. We got copyright claimed for the original song and this is the best we can do with YouTube's editor. Next time we'll pick sweet royalty free music beforehand. Thanks for watching :-)

    • Semariion Rogers
      Semariion Rogers  1 months back

      Don't be sorry, this was great and you should be very proud of yourself

    • vitral es montaña
      vitral es montaña  1 months back

      Make a video on how to be super disgustingly ugly and charismatic at the same time

    • NT DBOSS
      NT DBOSS  2 months back

      Link me that vid

    • Master
      Master  2 months back

      charisma for clowns

  • yee haw
    yee haw  8 hours back

    How To Turn Awkwardness Into Confidence:
    Step 1: *be a gemini*

    • Anna Bagó
      Anna Bagó  19 hours back

      First 10 seconds of video: How to manage other people's opinions
      Last 2 sec: Don't try to manage other people's opinions

      • You Are Reading This
        You Are Reading This  1 days back

        I think my YouTube recommendations are telling me something.

        • You Are Reading This
          You Are Reading This  1 days back

          Brave of you to assume I’m capable of this,

          • Edmqnd
            Edmqnd  2 days back

            "3.25 million subscribers" Never seen that before.

            • JeanetteIsweetcupcakes

              I’m watching this because i’m moving schools for high school and i’ve been in the same school from 2nd grade to 8th grade and have had the same group of friends for like 5 years and UR GURL, HAS DEVELOPED SOCIAL ANXIETY SINCE SHE HASN’T MADE NEW FRIENDS IN LIKE 3 YEARS AND AVOIDS GOING OUTSIDE 😗✌️

              • John Ergon Golpe
                John Ergon Golpe  2 days back

                lets be honest fellow introverts: we all needed this video

                • Yung Wheezy
                  Yung Wheezy  2 days back

                  I don’t wanna be a leader in the group. But to be able to function within it and not be uncomfortable.

                  • Frank Russell
                    Frank Russell  2 days back

                    7:09 looks like Tom is saying what the narrator is saying😂

                    • Niyati Nakhva
                      Niyati Nakhva  3 days back

                      Tom be like "Imma just YeET the awkwardness".....

                      • Bob omb
                        Bob omb  3 days back

                        Wait....spiderman wears a thong.

                        • King Alpha
                          King Alpha  3 days back

                          Tom Holland is awesome.

                          • Elise Erickson
                            Elise Erickson  3 days back

                            im so attracted to him

                            • Wareesha Zafar
                              Wareesha Zafar  4 days back

                              Need a charisma breakdown on Sebastian Stan

                              • Francis Nderi
                                Francis Nderi  4 days back

                                Before the video starts- this has to be it, I am gonna be superman

                                Video ends- Fell more awkward than ever. Thanks!!

                                • noga 1
                                  noga 1  4 days back

                                  Social anxiety = 24/7 Awkwardness

                                  • Megan Zhao
                                    Megan Zhao  4 days back

                                    I see Tom... I click

                                    • michael fox
                                      michael fox  4 days back

                                      Heroin gives you a false sense of confidence🤷‍♂️

                                    • Ben Wallace
                                      Ben Wallace  4 days back

                                      Just bite all people in the room and build your own confidence 🍃

                                      • Mahbob Ahmed
                                        Mahbob Ahmed  4 days back

                                        If anyone were to tease you for anything, don’t frown or sulk, don’t even try and say something back. Let them speak and laugh along or agree. That ends the joke completely. If you try and fight it, 99% of the time, they’ll fight back too and they have the upper hand because they started teasing you first

                                        • Gbitty X
                                          Gbitty X  5 days back

                                          Dam 5 million views dam my friends are gonna call me out for using these tips

                                          • Diamond Vo
                                            Diamond Vo  5 days back

                                            i appreciate the person who made this

                                            • Simonne
                                              Simonne  5 days back

                                              I always try to defend myself and end up cutting out people who tease me. I have never teased anyone nor do I handle teasing well. It’s rude and childish and not playful banter. I nip that in the bud real quick. If I can go my whole life without teasing someone then you can too.

                                              • Simonne
                                                Simonne  5 days back

                                                3:26 Jack Black is the most outgoing person ever. It’s amazing.

                                                • Harold Styless
                                                  Harold Styless  6 days back

                                                  i really needed this lmao. bled on a chair today in school. i know tmrw is gonna be hard

                                                  • Harper rice
                                                    Harper rice  6 days back

                                                    2:22 you say karaoke but thats not spider man..... ITS THE FLASH

                                                    • Ed Potter
                                                      Ed Potter  6 days back

                                                      Tom is just being a Gemini the whole video lmao

                                                      • Aniruddh Singh
                                                        Aniruddh Singh  6 days back

                                                        "Ohh great, his talking skills are awesome...

                                                        Let's snatch him back from Marvel. "

                                                        • Noel Sinambela
                                                          Noel Sinambela  6 days back

                                                          wow ive been doing this the whole time no cap

                                                          • Noah Terrell
                                                            Noah Terrell  6 days back

                                                            How the frack do you have the authority to wipe away my social anxiety?

                                                            • Nastia Stepanova
                                                              Nastia Stepanova  7 days back

                                                              Yesssssss I enjoyed watching this video ^_^

                                                              • Rob Halford 1982
                                                                Rob Halford 1982  1 weeks back

                                                                i agree with this one 11:33

                                                                • Fish Main
                                                                  Fish Main  1 weeks back

                                                                  Straight facts

                                                                  • sweet28kandy90
                                                                    sweet28kandy90  1 weeks back

                                                                    Im a simple girl.
                                                                    I see Tom Holland. I click.

                                                                    • Laura M
                                                                      Laura M  1 weeks back

                                                                      Wow, committing yourself to what you're expressing is a thing?
                                                                      I do it subconsciously when i'm singing in front of my friends even though my voice isn't that great, it gets them to laugh seeing me being all dramatic😂😂😂

                                                                      • Ana Ortega
                                                                        Ana Ortega  1 weeks back

                                                                        *how to become tom holland in 11 minutes and 32 seconds*

                                                                        • Kercheval Conrad
                                                                          Kercheval Conrad  1 weeks back

                                                                          This is deep! 👌🏽

                                                                          • Algis Kemezys
                                                                            Algis Kemezys  1 weeks back

                                                                            Nice pov here to expand your reality

                                                                            • Ask Kure
                                                                              Ask Kure  1 weeks back

                                                                              I'm sure it's easier to achieve this when you are successful and people like you already ... 😁

                                                                              • Anna
                                                                                Anna  1 weeks back

                                                                                Clicked on this for Tom Holland, stayed for the helpful tips

                                                                                • Miggie Lovie
                                                                                  Miggie Lovie  1 weeks back

                                                                                  Me telling a story about the time i got kidnapped by the Hellfighters during Sturgis Bike week

                                                                                  Me - OMG So i got a story to tell you,
                                                                                  Listener - What? what happened
                                                                                  Me - I went out to Sturgis this past weekend
                                                                                  Listener - Awesome what did you do? Did you have fun?
                                                                                  Me - It was ok, didnt do much
                                                                                  Listener - 😒😒😒😒😒😒 Cool story bro

                                                                                  • Taledzha Michelle Robinson-Togia

                                                                                    when your social skills are so bad that you have to watch videos on how to act in order to seem like a regular human being

                                                                                    • tweelly
                                                                                      tweelly  1 weeks back

                                                                                      Finally saw it, happy youtube?

                                                                                      • Jenna Elliott
                                                                                        Jenna Elliott  1 weeks back

                                                                                        Thank you ❤️

                                                                                        • GHXST
                                                                                          GHXST  1 weeks back

                                                                                          Step 1: be yourself
                                                                                          Step 2: embrace your awkwardness
                                                                                          Step 3: if someone makes a joke about you or teases you just go along with it

                                                                                        • RÃF FÍK
                                                                                          RÃF FÍK  1 weeks back

                                                                                          2:30 what's the music name?

                                                                                          • Ya Matryoshka
                                                                                            Ya Matryoshka  1 weeks back

                                                                                            Yes I'm watching this at 2 am and also I have been doing this subconsciously and never realised that I was doing it